IT HAPPENED TO ME
BY
ALAN RAYMENT
1915 - 1997
His Biography takes you through his boyhood days in a
Victorian type household. At school, his main interest was sport.
He became a member of the scout movement, from the cub stage
through to becoming a rover, as did his friend Sam.
Their claim to adventure in their early teens was climbing the
Glyders and Snowdon with a 20 mile hike back to base at Llyn
Ogwen in one day.
He left grammar school without a certificate but won his school
colours at football. After 3 months working in his first job in
the cellars of a Manchester warehouse, he moved into the soft
furnishing department. He suffered from colour blindness. This
resulted in an early transfer to another job at an insurance
company. He quickly moved from the filing section to the claims
department and became part of the team which specialised in
repudiating claims.
At the age of 17, his family moved to Wolverhampton, where his
father became area representative for his wholesale Manchester
warehouse. This was the early period of the 1930s, years of
depression. Without work for many months, he ultimately secured
work at a lock manufacturer in Willenhall as a progress chaser.
He gained knowledge in their products and was moved into the
ordering office, but failed to receive an increase in salary.
This caused him to apply for another post at Ever Ready, where he
was successful and was placed on the efficiency section on work
study and costing. At the age of 22, he was promoted to
production manager, in charge of many hundreds of production
workers, producing daily cycle lamps and torches in huge
quantities for firms like Woolworth. Hitlers dictatorship
caused many to join the territorial army, as did Alan Rayment in
early 1938. On the invasion of Germany, he was recalled to his AA
artillery unit at the drill hall, following the outbreak of war,
to wed his betrothed, Gladys. By midday, he had rejoined his
unit, which had been ordered to Coventry to position their 3-inch
mobile anti-aircraft gun on the outskirts of this city.
This was the beginning of his war service, taking him to France
in October and finally escaping a month after the Dunkirk episode
from St Nazaire in June 1940. He remained in this country for the
rest of the war in ack ack units employed on
predictors and radar tracking duties. He returned to Ever Ready
where he was given a 3 year task to lay out the factory for flow
production of newly designed articles. During this period, he
designed purpose equipment to fit in the parameters of the
factory building. Parallel with his daily work, he became father
to Harry and also concentrated on technical evening studies
immediately on being demobbed. In his third year, he obtained his
Higher National Certificate in Engineering, which gained him
entrance to the admiralty scientific service. Whilst working at
the admiralty research laboratory, Teddington, he continued to
gain further technical and management qualifications enabling him
to be accepted as a chartered engineer.
From birth, Harry showed behavioural problems, crying
continuously night and day through into his early childhood days.
It was only when his brother, Andrew, was born that his parents
knew that it was possible to have a happy child. Harrys
behaviour pattern became an increasing problem, not being able to
settle at school or at work and was finally diagnosed as paranoia
schizophrenic at the age of 18. The domestic scene caused by this
illness meant that Andrew atended Bearwood College, Berkshire,
where he obtained A-levels.
The years that followed were dominated by Harrys bizarre
actions, including a number of attempted suicides, self-inflicted
facial and head injuries. The mental hospitals failed to contain
him and finally told his parents they had discharged him,
withdrawing all medication in his late 30s. For 3 years,
Harry lived with drop-outs of the community, living in communes,
but always within a distance that his parents could support him.
He returned to the Portsmouth area and was accepted by a new
consultant at the local mental hospital.
At the retirement of his Dad, Gladys died of cancer, with Harry,
who appeared to vie for attention with acts of violence, causing
the local hospital to place him in a secure ward. Three years
later, Alan married Sams ex-wife, Ella, all of whom were in
the same gang in their childhood days. She also died 10 years
later. Andrew entered the civil service marrying Linda at an
early age and had 6 children, the eldest, Joy, is midwife.
Harry, at the age of 40, was placed in the community at Southsea
and became reasonably stable, being supported by St James
medical staff and housed with 6 other long term mental patients
by the Portsmouth Housing Trust. He had always an interest in art
and during his late 40s, the staff at the Grove Centre, a
part of the Portsmouth University support for the community with
disadvantages, he has found a purpose in life. The fellowship in
his residence, especially Sylvia, their housekeeper, has had a
mellow effect on him and his main concern is for his octogenarian
Dads health and welfare. A success case for Barbara
Castles policy of placing mental patients in the community!
The author of this book gives space to the world affairs and even
to development in outer space, and it seems fitting to include
the tributes Princess Diana received at her State Funeral in his
epilogue wake.
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1/2 | 1930-1932 | |
1/3 | 1932-1935 | |
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© 1998 Alan Rayment
Last revised: February 28, 1998.